Intellectual Foreplay: Questions for Serious Lovers
The book, is basically a long list of questions that will help you get to know your lover better. Here is an excerpt from Amazon’s write-up about Intellectual Foreplay:
… enhanced knowledge of their own and their partners’ beliefs, values, habits, desires, goals, likes, and dislikes; ideas for opening communication and deepening a relationship; skills for making healthy decisions about lifestyles and boundaries; an in-depth understanding of the role of self-esteem in relationships; increased ability to let go of the past and embrace the present; and the knowledge that it is important not only to choose the right partner, but also to be the right partner.
This book really stood out to me because my girlfriend and I maintain long distance relationship. The next step will involve some sacrifices. We both want to be sure we are ready.
Author Eva Escher Hogan’s web site goes into detail about the book.