Foreplay: The Battle of the Sexes
I’ve been a bit heady lately. I feel like talking sex.
Foreplay. The word is almost scientific. Its that task that all sex-ed books and academic material express the benefits of. I used the word “task” for a reason. Too many of us guys see it this way. The dues you need to pay before you get the prize. If you see it this way, I guarantee you will be cutting yourself off in the long run.
Girls love this stuff. Whether its 10 seconds or 10 days. There’s no constraint on time and all focus on creativity. I like to focus on the play part. When we are physical, her body is my playground; I explore every inch. When I know I can’t touch her any time soon, I thrive in her fantasies. In fact, I strive to hear them all, collecting my deadly arsenal for future attacks.
Sometimes I like to think of it as a battle of the sexes. Women have infinite sexual energy. Guys, well, multi-orgasmic is for the lucky ones. My goal is to wear her out, and literally last longer. Try it some time. It will make you feel strong and dominant. Do everything but penetrate her. Use every part of your body to touch every part of hers. Make her beg. Maker her feel your dominance.
There is some good material on this topic on the web.
- Teasing, foreplay talk, role play - some fun pointers
- Heat Her Up (Men’s Health)
- The Importance of Foreplay (AskMen.com)
- Wikipedia on foreplay.
- Also at Wikipedia, outerplay (NSFW). Tons of great ideas for physical touch. Check out the “colloquialisms” section, it’s too funny!