Archive for January, 2008

6 reasons you need a foot fetish

Posted by joe on Jan 21 2008 | Sex

An image search for nice feet shows my friends lovely popsicle toes, freshly manicured, soft and lovely. She gets tons of traffic and comments about them. It usually weirds her out until we really thought about it. Wouldn’t she love it if her man desired them?

I wish I had a foot fetish–and here is why:

  1. She’ ll love you for it.
    Guys with this fetish are constantly massaging and caressing the object of their desire. You will make her day every night of the week.
  2. More sex.
    After a long day, she may be too tired for sex. A foot massage though may be just enough to get her going. Besides, rubbing her back can be difficult for you, the positions are funky, you can never get comfortable, etc. A foot rub gives you a good visual on the rest of her body too.
  3. Makes her your queen.
    In ancient times, washing and carrying for someone’s feet was a way to praise them (think biblical). At foot-to-eye-level, she is on a pedestal–you are worshiping her. If she’s into the dominatrix thing, that is icing on the cake. NOTE: Always maintain control over the situation. She must remember that you choose to maker her your queen.
  4. It’s interesting and mysterious–in an intellectual sort-of-way.
    99.9% of us are ass, boob or leg men. Feet on the other hand will make you mysterious, and interesting. As long as you are not a visible freak in too many ways, it can be an enchanting quality.
  5. Naked feet everywhere!
    The eye candy would be limitless. Everywhere you go, you will find exposed women’s feet. A summer afternoon could be like a stroll through the playboy mansion. Don’t make her jealous though!
  6. She likes shoes.
    You will want to see her in all kinds of interesting foot lingerie. Gifts for her will be delights for you.

How do I force a fetish?

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The cuddle bed

Posted by joe on Jan 10 2008 | Home & Family

nice bed

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4 Steps to a Sexy Bedroom

Posted by joe on Jan 08 2008 | Sex

Decorate like a playful adult

  • Get some sexy art (loose the college posters)
  • A big, comfortable bed (with a canopy). Lots of pillows of various sizes, Egyptian cotton sheets,
  • Furniture that is sex friendly, like small couches, ottomans, foot rests, etc.  Careful, there is a lot of over-the-top stuff.
  • Be creative yet conscious of the moods you want to invoke - lust, passion, love, comfort, etc. Your color schemes should match the mood.
  • Lighting - get something you can adjust to fit the mood. A dimmer!

Keep it clean.
This one is easy, keep the clutter in its place. If you are like me, you carry a lot of crap in your pockets. Find a place to keep that stuff out of sight.

Audio and Visual stimulation

  • Music - keep mood music close at hand. A good stereo is a must.
  • TV? I personally do not like to watch TV in bed. Its nice for watching movies though, so maybe keep cable out?
  • Books, magazines and other reading materials. There are lots of fun books out there to share, try The Complete Kama Sutra, Intellectual Foreplay, and best woment’s erotica (to get her going).

Make it sexually functional
Put condoms, lubricants, toys, etc. in a place that is easily accessible.

Other Reading 

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Top Ten Lists for guys that love their girls

Posted by joe on Jan 04 2008 | Other

Here are some top ten lists from AskMen.com.  The magazine has a lot of stuff for guys that are playing the field, something I am not interested in.

Gifts 

Romance and Sex

Communication, Living Together, Family

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30 years of family photos

Posted by joe on Jan 04 2008 | Home & Family

This couple took photos of themselves and their children over 30 years. I think this would be an interesting experiment to try with my own experiences.

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